⭐ from boston with love
My long weekend trip to Boston was, by all measures, lovely. I called it a 'solo trip' but in the end I only spent one of the four days in the city alone; in the others three local friends kept me company.
While the day I spent alone was the least memorable of the four I was in Boston, it was liberating to explore alone at my own pace. I meandered through the streets of Boston, crossing streets without rhyme or reason, doubling back, perusing stores on whims, and walking in circles. It's been a while since I've been able to wander around without a plan on vacation, since when you're traveling with others they understandably want to know where they're going. When I'm not responsible for the plans of others, I don't need to feel bad when an anticipated destination disappoints, or my poor decision making wastes precious time. I only have myself to answer for, and since I didn't make many plans, I had low expectations.
When I'm out by myself I try not to listen to music, because safety reasons aside I cherish the time I spend alone with my own thoughts. It's hard to get lost in your own thoughts when you have company, since you're frequently interrupted by their remarks. It can be a blessing to distract yourself from your internal monologue at times, but when I go too long without listening to it I get out of touch with how I feel inside.
Boston was smaller than I expected. It's hard to get a sense for the scale of a city until you walk through it. I was surprised that I could walk to pretty much all the places I wanted to see in roughly a day, including Chinatown, North End, Harvard, MIT, Beacon Hill, Newbury Street, and Boston Common. Granted, it would be a long and tiring day (and I had many of those!), but attempting to do the same in NYC seems impossible. Could you imagine trying to see Central Park, Chinatown, Brooklyn, and Queens on foot, all in one day?
Perhaps it's fortunate that Boston is so compact, because the subway system there (called the "T") proved underwhelming. The trains move mind-numbingly slowly, and I rarely found Google Maps' public transit estimates much faster than walking. I only took it once, to go to South Station from Cambridge, and I found myself sorely missing the ruthless efficiency of the MTA as we crawled through stops. After walking more than thirty miles in three days, I spent the last day shopping online for more comfortable walking shoes.
My friends in the city were lovely hosts. They proved to be kind, considerate, and perhaps most importantly, incredibly generous with their time. They took me to do things I would surely have missed on my own, like race office chairs down steep basement declines, play spontaneous pickleball on a rooftop garden, and watch the sunset from the top floor of a classroom building. Some of them (whom I met in summer camp way back in high school) I hadn't seen in four, five years, but our conversations picked up right where they left off. It's a wonderful thing, to feel like you haven't missed a beat with someone even after half a decade apart.
Racing office chairs at dangerously high speeds was certainly exhilarating, but my favorite memory from the trip has to be when we stumbled across a public piano on MIT campus. My two companions with me for that day are talented musicians, and we took turns playing the piano and singing pop songs. Before long, a small crowd gathered, and our singing voices echoed through the empty tiled halls. As I finished a song a boy who had been listening and singing along by the piano got my attention and said, "You're killing it!" with a beaming smile. I could have burst into tears on the spot, big bittersweet tears of heartbreak, longing, nostalgia, and gratitude. I don't know if he knew how much that compliment meant to me, but I know I won't ever forget it.
Pleasant melodies and harmonies might have been what originally got me into music, but it's dawned on me that what keeps me coming back to the keyboard is the space it creates for me to share lovely memories with strangers and friends alike. I keep thinking of what Visa claims is the best guiding question in life: Who do you want to share this life with? It's a question I've always struggled with, between my pickiness and the vicissitudes of fate, but I do know I want to spend more time with friends like these.
Thank you for reading all this! Now if you'll excuse me, I have some demons to run from.
Highlights
- ⭐ Tora Japanese Restaurant (20B Tyler St, Boston, MA 02111)
- Absolutely delicious kaisen don (sashimi and rice bowls) for relatively cheap.
- I got the kuromon don (yellowtail, salmon, tuna, mackerel, red snapper). I don't remember raw mackerel being so delicious but I highly recommend getting it.
⭐ Yume Ga Arukara (1815 Massachusetts Ave, Cambridge, MA 02140; floor 1 of the Lesley University Porter Campus)
- A hidden gem in the first floor of a university food court. The spicy cold udon is to die for, and get it with extra noodles ($3) because portion sizes are small. (Don't worry, it's not spicy at all.)
- This is a small place with few seats so expect to wait in line if you go during a popular time. They're very efficient and work hard to get you in and out of there as quickly as possible.
- I enjoyed lunch here so much on Sunday I returned on Monday to have it again, with extra noodles and the onsen egg added in.
⭐ Kendall Square Rooftop Garden (325 Main St, Cambridge, MA 02142)
- A public garden on the roof of a Google office building with beautiful views, ample tables and chairs, and a pickleball court. A great place to eat some takeout, relax, and play pickleball.
- The Helmand (143 First St, Cambridge, MA 02142)
- Our 'medium' rack of lamb came out well done, so if you have taste buds I'd recommend getting medium rare or rare.
- Our waiter was a sweetheart who was clearly new to the job, because he kept apologizing for his mistakes. He was doing his best though. I wanted to give him a hug, because it must be hard being the new guy in a foreign job, but i settled for a thumbs up and a smile.
- WardMaps LLC (1731 Massachusetts Ave, Cambridge, MA 02138)
- A very neat but expensive place to get quirky souvenirs like old maps, postcards, and prints.
- I bought my friend some cheap vinyls here for $2 apiece only to leave them on the Amtrak ;_;
- Toscanini's Ice Cream (159 First St, Cambridge, MA 02139)
- My friends call this place "Tosci's", the popularity of which I'm not clear on.
- The earl grey ice cream was not the best I've had (I think that distinction goes to Van Leeuwen), but good nontheless.
- Honeycomb Creamery (1702 Massachusetts Ave, Cambridge, MA 02138)
- No samples and a small selection of flavors, but the flavors I tried were pretty good anyway. The ice cream here is very light and airy, and I felt like I could eat a bucketful.
- I think I tried the ginger rhubarb crisp; cardamom, coffee, and black walnut (both seasonal flavors); and cold brew coffee chip (on the regular menu).
- Pauli's (65 Salem St, Boston, MA 02113)
- I didn't want to get my obligatory lobster roll at a tourist trap like Quincy Market or a chain like Luke's Lobster, so I settled on Pauli's.
- I got the hot lobster roll because I'd never had one, but I didn't like it as much as the cold version with mayo, so I recommend you go for the cold one.
- The roll was tasty, but I'll never understand why people will shell out $30 for a roll smaller than a hot dog. Crab tastes just as good, does it not?
- Zinneken's Belgian Waffles (1154 Massachusetts Ave, Cambridge, MA 02138)
- Cute place to get a tasty Belgian waffle!
- The Liege waffle ($5) we got was very tasty.
- Mike's Pastry (300 Hanover St, Boston, MA 02113)
- The limoncello cannoli I had was good but so massive and sweet I felt nauseous afterwards. I'd recommend splitting one with someone else and getting a less sweet flavor; maybe an espresso one would be easier to stomach.
- I also tried the lobster tail which is supposedly their specialty but found it underwhelming. The cream was good but the pastry was so tough my jaws cramped up trying to chew it.
- Cash only!
- 180 Cafe (23 Edinboro St, Boston, MA 02111)
- Very cheap, even by my standards (<$2 for most of the baked goods), but pastry choices dwindle by end of day.
- I tried the custard bun, pork sung bun, and egg tarts, and all were good! I also got some $9 roll cakes to gift to friends.
- Kenmore Army and Navy Stores (477 Washington St, Boston, MA 02111)
- Putting this here mostly for myself but I spent a long time here trying on bomber jackets and bucket hats. Surprisingly I think the Kangol bucket hats I wanted weren't too marked up? I regret not getting one...
- Banh Mi Huong Que (696 Washington St, Boston, MA 02111)
- The baguettes they used were really big and crispy but I found myself missing the chewy interior of the ones we have back at home. Also, at $8 they weren't as cheap as I'm used to.
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